No feed. No algorithm. Nothing to swipe. Every application is read by a person before anything opens, and sometimes the answer is no.
Everything else you have open is built to keep you looking. This one is trying to get you to the end of the list.
Membership here costs the same whether you are on the site every night or twice a year. Nobody is paid more because you stayed longer, and nothing is arranged to keep you here.
If you meet somebody in your first week, we have lost nothing.
Which is why there is so little to do on this site. You read the list, you write to somebody, and the rest of it happens somewhere we are not.
Your age, your city, and a number the house can reach you on. It takes about a minute, nothing is charged, and nothing of yours is shown to anybody yet.
Somebody opens your application and decides. Usually within the hour. Sometimes the answer is no, and that is the reason it is worth being on the other side of.
Looking around stays free. Membership is what opens photographs and lets you write to people. There is no checkout — you settle it with the house directly and it is opened by hand.
Conversations happen here, where the house can see that everybody is behaving. Phone numbers do not go through chat, so nobody is moved off the site and out of reach in the first ten minutes.
There is no figure here for how many people are inside. That is not a number anybody should be choosing a place by.
Age, and who somebody says they are, is what they have told us. We do not pretend to have inspected a document, and anybody who tells you they have is being loose with you.
What a person does read is whether an account belongs here, and they read every one. That is the whole of the door, and it is more than most places do.
Nothing here will notify you at midnight and there is no feed to fall into. Apply, wait for somebody to read it, and find out whether you are let in. It is free, and it is the only thing this page is asking you to do.
A members’ directory. You browse everyone free — name, age and city. Photographs are not public here: they open only for members the house admits by hand. Every account is read by a person before it opens. Nothing on this site can charge your card.
Yes, and you do not need an account to do it. A signed-out visitor can read every listing — name, age, city — and is served no photograph at all. Looking stays free either way; photographs are what membership opens.
Photographs are not shown on the public site at all. Signed out or signed in, you are served none of them until the house opens photographs for your account by hand — approval on its own does not do it, and there is no blurred preview to look at in the meantime. The database simply does not tell your browser where the file is.
No. Nothing on this site can charge your card. There is no checkout, no card field anywhere in the database, and no payment processor — the house settles every payment by hand.
No. Age and identity are self-declared. That was a deliberate decision, not an oversight — the database can hold verification records so checks could be turned on later, but none are running.